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008			130410s1999 mou ob 000 0 eng d
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049			_aN$TA
100	1		_aSmith, Harold Ivan, _d1947-
245	1	2	_aA Decembered grief _h[electronic resource] : _bliving with loss while others are celebrating / _cHarold Ivan Smith.
260			_aKansas City, Mo. : _bBeacon Hill Press of Kansas City, _cc1999.
300			_a1 online resource.
504			_aIncludes bibliographical references.
505	0	0	_tAlter--Rather than Abandon--Traditions _g16 -- _tAnticipate the Holidays _g18 -- _tAppreciate the Grief Styles and Decisions of Others _g20 -- _tAsk Your Church for Help _g22 -- _tBe Alert to the Culture's Obsession with Excitement _g24 -- _tBefriend Your Grief _g26 -- _tBefuddle Someone _g28 -- _tCarolize Your Season _g30 -- _tCelebrate Sensitively _g34 -- _tConsider the Needs of Everyone _g36 -- _tCreate New Traditions _g38 -- _tCreate Ornaments or Decorations That Symbolize Your Loved One and Eternal Life _g40 -- _tCry If You Want To _g42 -- _tDefine Your Boundaries _g44 -- _tDo What You Need to Do _g46 -- _tDonate to Your Church or a Charity in Honor of Your Loved One _g48 -- _tDon't Fast-Forward to January 5 _g50 -- _tForgive Those You Believe Are Responsible for the Death _g52 -- _tGive Your Grief Its Voice _g54 -- _tGive Yourself Permission to Say, "No," or "I'll Pass" _g56 -- _tGuard Your Heart _g58 -- _tInvite God's Help _g60 -- _tJournal Your Grief _g62 -- _tKeep the Future in Mind _g64 -- _tLet Others In on Your Grief _g66 -- _tMake Gratitude _g68 -- _tMinimize the Seasonal Stressors _g70 -- _tMiss the Invitations to Parties and Other Social Events _g72 -- _tNap _g74 -- _tNetwork with Other Grievers _g76 -- _tNurture Yourself _g78 -- _tObserve a Quiet Holy Day _g80 -- _tOrganize Your Living Environment _g82 -- _tPrepare _g84 -- _tRead _g86 -- _tRemain Open to Seasonal Surprises _g88 -- _tRemember Realistically _g90 -- _tResist the Temptation to Make It Up to Others for What They've Been Through _g92 -- _tRethink Your Holiday Shopping Habits _g94 -- _tSay Your Loved One's Name _g96 -- _tToast Your Loved One _g98 -- _tTry Events _g100 -- _tUnplug the Christmas Mania _g102 -- _tUse Some of Your Seasonal Decorations _g104 -- _tVisit the Cemetery or Scattering Ground _g106 -- _tVolunteer at a Social Service Agency _g108 -- _tVote Your Choices _g110 -- _tWatch Children _g112 -- _tWatch Out for Numbing Influences _g114 -- _tWeigh Any Criticism of Your Grief Style and Holiday Decisions _g116 -- _tWorship _g118 -- _tWrite a Year-End Letter to Your Deceased Loved One _g120 -- _t"Yes" Invitations That Feel Right _g122 -- _t"Zestize" Your Season _g124 -- _tHow to Pray This Holiday Season _g126.
588			_aDescription based on print version record.
650		0	_aBereavement _xReligious aspects _xChristianity.
650		0	_aGrief _xReligious aspects _xChristianity.
650		0	_aChristmas _xPsychological aspects.
650		7	_aRELIGION / Christian Life / Death, Grief, Bereavement _2bisacsh
655		4	_aElectronic books.
776	0	8	_iPrint version: _aSmith, Harold Ivan, 1947- _tDecembered grief. _dKansas City, Mo. : Beacon Hill Press of Kansas City, c1999 _z083411819X _w(DLC) 99038154 _w(OCoLC)41885824
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