03793nam a2200445Ia 4500001001300000003000600013005001700019006001900036007001500055008004100070040001300111020001500124020001800139020003500157020003200192035002100224035001800245050001300263072002500276082001700301049000900318100003100327245011700358260006600475300002300541504004100564505212800605588004702733650005002780650004402830650003802874650006702912655002202979776017203001856010503173938002803278910001203306994001203318999001703330ocn837575400OCoLC20200709055711.0m        d        cr cnu---unuuu130410s1999    mou     ob    000 0 eng d  aN$TcN$T  z083411819X  z9780834118195  a9780834125780 (electronic bk.)  a0834125781 (electronic bk.)  a(OCoLC)837575400  a519950b(N$T) 4aBV4905.2 7aRELx0120102bisacsh04a248.8/66223  aN$TA1 aSmith, Harold Ivan,d1947-12aA Decembered griefh[electronic resource] :bliving with loss while others are celebrating /cHarold Ivan Smith.  aKansas City, Mo. :bBeacon Hill Press of Kansas City,cc1999.  a1 online resource.  aIncludes bibliographical references.00tAlter--Rather than Abandon--Traditionsg16 --tAnticipate the Holidaysg18 --tAppreciate the Grief Styles and Decisions of Othersg20 --tAsk Your Church for Helpg22 --tBe Alert to the Culture's Obsession with Excitementg24 --tBefriend Your Griefg26 --tBefuddle Someoneg28 --tCarolize Your Seasong30 --tCelebrate Sensitivelyg34 --tConsider the Needs of Everyoneg36 --tCreate New Traditionsg38 --tCreate Ornaments or Decorations That Symbolize Your Loved One and Eternal Lifeg40 --tCry If You Want Tog42 --tDefine Your Boundariesg44 --tDo What You Need to Dog46 --tDonate to Your Church or a Charity in Honor of Your Loved Oneg48 --tDon't Fast-Forward to January 5g50 --tForgive Those You Believe Are Responsible for the Deathg52 --tGive Your Grief Its Voiceg54 --tGive Yourself Permission to Say, "No," or "I'll Pass"g56 --tGuard Your Heartg58 --tInvite God's Helpg60 --tJournal Your Griefg62 --tKeep the Future in Mindg64 --tLet Others In on Your Griefg66 --tMake Gratitudeg68 --tMinimize the Seasonal Stressorsg70 --tMiss the Invitations to Parties and Other Social Eventsg72 --tNapg74 --tNetwork with Other Grieversg76 --tNurture Yourselfg78 --tObserve a Quiet Holy Dayg80 --tOrganize Your Living Environmentg82 --tPrepareg84 --tReadg86 --tRemain Open to Seasonal Surprisesg88 --tRemember Realisticallyg90 --tResist the Temptation to Make It Up to Others for What They've Been Throughg92 --tRethink Your Holiday Shopping Habitsg94 --tSay Your Loved One's Nameg96 --tToast Your Loved Oneg98 --tTry Eventsg100 --tUnplug the Christmas Maniag102 --tUse Some of Your Seasonal Decorationsg104 --tVisit the Cemetery or Scattering Groundg106 --tVolunteer at a Social Service Agencyg108 --tVote Your Choicesg110 --tWatch Childreng112 --tWatch Out for Numbing Influencesg114 --tWeigh Any Criticism of Your Grief Style and Holiday Decisionsg116 --tWorshipg118 --tWrite a Year-End Letter to Your Deceased Loved Oneg120 --t"Yes" Invitations That Feel Rightg122 --t"Zestize" Your Seasong124 --tHow to Pray This Holiday Seasong126.  aDescription based on print version record. 0aBereavementxReligious aspectsxChristianity. 0aGriefxReligious aspectsxChristianity. 0aChristmasxPsychological aspects. 7aRELIGION / Christian Life / Death, Grief, Bereavement2bisacsh 4aElectronic books.08iPrint version:aSmith, Harold Ivan, 1947-tDecembered grief.dKansas City, Mo. : Beacon Hill Press of Kansas City, c1999z083411819Xw(DLC)   99038154w(OCoLC)41885824403EBSCOhostuhttp://search.ebscohost.com/login.aspx?direct=true&scope=site&db=nlebk&db=nlabk&AN=519950  aEBSCOhostbEBSCn519950  acpp3356  a02bN$T  c52282d52282