TY  - BOOK
AU  - Smith,Harold Ivan
TI  - A Decembered grief: living with loss while others are celebrating 
AV  - BV4905.2 
U1  - 248.8/66 23
PY  - 1999///
CY  - Kansas City, Mo.
PB  - Beacon Hill Press of Kansas City
KW  - Bereavement
KW  - Religious aspects
KW  - Christianity
KW  - Grief
KW  - Christmas
KW  - Psychological aspects
KW  - RELIGION / Christian Life / Death, Grief, Bereavement
KW  - bisacsh
KW  - Electronic books
N1  - Includes bibliographical references; Alter--Rather than Abandon--Traditions; 16 --; Anticipate the Holidays; 18 --; Appreciate the Grief Styles and Decisions of Others; 20 --; Ask Your Church for Help; 22 --; Be Alert to the Culture's Obsession with Excitement; 24 --; Befriend Your Grief; 26 --; Befuddle Someone; 28 --; Carolize Your Season; 30 --; Celebrate Sensitively; 34 --; Consider the Needs of Everyone; 36 --; Create New Traditions; 38 --; Create Ornaments or Decorations That Symbolize Your Loved One and Eternal Life; 40 --; Cry If You Want To; 42 --; Define Your Boundaries; 44 --; Do What You Need to Do; 46 --; Donate to Your Church or a Charity in Honor of Your Loved One; 48 --; Don't Fast-Forward to January 5; 50 --; Forgive Those You Believe Are Responsible for the Death; 52 --; Give Your Grief Its Voice; 54 --; Give Yourself Permission to Say, "No," or "I'll Pass"; 56 --; Guard Your Heart; 58 --; Invite God's Help; 60 --; Journal Your Grief; 62 --; Keep the Future in Mind; 64 --; Let Others In on Your Grief; 66 --; Make Gratitude; 68 --; Minimize the Seasonal Stressors; 70 --; Miss the Invitations to Parties and Other Social Events; 72 --; Nap; 74 --; Network with Other Grievers; 76 --; Nurture Yourself; 78 --; Observe a Quiet Holy Day; 80 --; Organize Your Living Environment; 82 --; Prepare; 84 --; Read; 86 --; Remain Open to Seasonal Surprises; 88 --; Remember Realistically; 90 --; Resist the Temptation to Make It Up to Others for What They've Been Through; 92 --; Rethink Your Holiday Shopping Habits; 94 --; Say Your Loved One's Name; 96 --; Toast Your Loved One; 98 --; Try Events; 100 --; Unplug the Christmas Mania; 102 --; Use Some of Your Seasonal Decorations; 104 --; Visit the Cemetery or Scattering Ground; 106 --; Volunteer at a Social Service Agency; 108 --; Vote Your Choices; 110 --; Watch Children; 112 --; Watch Out for Numbing Influences; 114 --; Weigh Any Criticism of Your Grief Style and Holiday Decisions; 116 --; Worship; 118 --; Write a Year-End Letter to Your Deceased Loved One; 120 --; "Yes" Invitations That Feel Right; 122 --; "Zestize" Your Season; 124 --; How to Pray This Holiday Season; 126
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