TY - BOOK AU - Leaf,Caroline TI - Who switched off your brain?: solving the mystery of he said /she said SN - 9780981956749 AV - BV4598.4 .L43 2013 U1 - 153.42/LEA 23 PY - 2011/// CY - Southlake, TX PB - Inprov, Ltd. KW - Thought and thinking KW - Religious aspects KW - Christianity KW - Well-being KW - Positive Psychology N1 - Includes bibliographical references; Solving the mystery of he said/she said -- Embrace the mystery -- The "I-factor" -- More than your genes -- Genes, epigenomes, trees & the power to choose -- Vision: he sees tan, she sees relaxed khaki -- Hearing: he hears the boom, she hears the footsteps -- Touch: hugs and handshakes -- Non-verbal communication: more than words -- He speaks in headlines, she tells every detail -- The "gear-shifter" -- The sixth sense: she reads the people, he reads the room -- Pain in your brain -- Here come the hormones! -- Memories: the mental baggage of communication -- He sorts by title, she sorts alphabetically -- She enjoys "multi-tasking," he prefers "single-tasking" -- Emotions: he stops, thinks and buries, she never stops -- Stress: he needs his space, she needs to talk it through -- The rest state: he thinks she's babbling and she sees "the hibernate look" -- Anger: he boils over then cools down, she burns slowly -- Empathy: discovering the power of mirror neurons -- Love and sex: all you need is. . .oxytocin? -- Gray and white matter: he's like a supercomputer, she's like the internet -- Spatial perception: he uses a compass, she paints a picture ER -