TY - BOOK AU - Covalt,Patricia TI - What smart couples know: the secret to a happy relationship SN - 0814409210 AV - HQ734 .C86575 2007 U1 - 158.2/4 22 PY - 2007/// CY - New York, N.Y. PB - AMACOM KW - Emotional intelligence KW - Marriage N1 - Includes bibliographical references (p. 237-241) and index; Laying the foundation -- Who am I? : beginning the journey -- The "fun"damentals : from friendship to sex -- The power of "we" -- Self-esteem : can I love you if I don't love me? -- The mind-body connection : health and fitness in relationships -- Spirituality : frosting or foundation? -- How to increase emotional intelligence for your relationship -- Begin with self-awareness -- Understanding and expressing your emotions -- Empathizing and being attuned to your love partner -- A positive attitude : maintaining hope and optimism -- Maintaining a sense of self-efficacy -- Delaying gratification and resisting impulses -- Self-motivation UR - http://www.loc.gov/catdir/toc/ecip0710/2007002595.html ER -