Reconcilable differences : (Record no. 43682)

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010 ## - LIBRARY OF CONGRESS CONTROL NUMBER
LC control number 2013037587
020 ## - INTERNATIONAL STANDARD BOOK NUMBER
International Standard Book Number 9781462502431 (pbk.)
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Original cataloging agency DLC
Language of cataloging eng
Transcribing agency DLC
Description conventions rda
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Authentication code pcc
050 00 - LIBRARY OF CONGRESS CALL NUMBER
Classification number HQ801
Item number .C4867 2014
082 00 - DEWEY DECIMAL CLASSIFICATION NUMBER
Classification number 306.7
Edition number 23
084 ## - OTHER CLASSIFICATION NUMBER
Classification number PSY041000
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-- PSY036000
Number source bisacsh
100 1# - MAIN ENTRY--PERSONAL NAME
Personal name Christensen, Andrew.
245 10 - TITLE STATEMENT
Title Reconcilable differences :
Remainder of title rebuild your relationship by rediscovering the partner you love--without losing yourself /
Statement of responsibility, etc. Andrew Christensen, Brian D. Doss, and Neil S. Jacobson.
250 ## - EDITION STATEMENT
Edition statement Second edition
260 ## - PUBLICATION, DISTRIBUTION, ETC.
Place of publication, distribution, etc. New York ;
-- London, UK :
Name of publisher, distributor, etc. The Guilford Press,
Date of publication, distribution, etc. c2014.
300 ## - PHYSICAL DESCRIPTION
Extent xviii, 348 pages :
Other physical details illustrations ; paperback ;
Dimensions 24 cm.
504 ## - BIBLIOGRAPHY, ETC. NOTE
Bibliography, etc. note Includes bibliographical references (p. 333-336) and index.
505 8# - FORMATTED CONTENTS NOTE
Formatted contents note Machine generated contents note: I. The Conflicting Sides of Conflict -- 1. Three Sides to Every Story -- 2. "You're Wrong!": Relationship Problems as Faults -- II. A DEEP Understanding of Conflict: The Third Side of the Story -- 3. "How Can You Be That Way?": Relationship Problems as Differences -- 4. "You Know How to Hurt Me": Relationship Problems as Emotional Sensitivities -- 5. "Can't You See I'm Stressed Out?": Relationship Problems as External Circumstances -- 6. A Cure Worse Than the Disease: Relationship Problems as Patterns of Communication -- III. From Argument to Acceptance -- 7. The Delicate Balance: Acceptance and Change -- 8. A Story of Our Own: Acceptance through Understanding -- 9. Walking in Your Partner's Shoes: Acceptance through Compassion -- 10. Getting Some Perspective on the Conflict: Acceptance through Tolerant Distance -- IV. Deliberate Change through Acceptance -- 11. The Dilemmas of Deliberate Change -- 12. Deliberate Change through Mindfulness: Custom-Fitting Change to Suit Your Relationship -- 13. Deliberate Change through Communication: Taking Good Advice about Talking and Listening with a Mindful Grain of Salt -- 14. The Silver Bullet of Deliberate Change: Taking Charge of Change Even When Things Go Bad -- V. When Acceptance Is Not Enough -- 15. "Don't Do That to Me!": Violence, Verbal Abuse, and Infidelity -- 16. Calling In the Professionals: Couple and Individual Therapy -- Resources -- Bibliography.
520 ## - SUMMARY, ETC.
Summary, etc. ""If only he could see things from my point of view." "Why does she have to act that way?" No matter how much two people love each other, their differences will eventually cause conflict. This popular, science-based guide offers powerful solutions for couples frustrated by continual attempts to make each other change. True acceptance of one another may seem difficult to accomplish, but the clear-cut steps in this book can make it a reality. Aided by thought-provoking exercises and vivid stories, readers learn why they keep having the same fights again and again; how to keep small incompatibilities from causing big problems; what communication strategies really work to resolve conflicts; and how to problem-solve and make positive changes--together. Updated throughout with new research, practical tools, and examples, the second edition features a new chapter on mindfulness"--
650 #0 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM
Topical term or geographic name entry element Couples.
650 #0 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM
Topical term or geographic name entry element Man-woman relationships.
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Topical term or geographic name entry element Interpersonal communication.
650 #0 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM
Topical term or geographic name entry element Interpersonal relations.
650 #0 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM
Topical term or geographic name entry element Conflict management.
700 1# - ADDED ENTRY--PERSONAL NAME
Personal name Doss, Brian David,
Dates associated with a name 1975-
Relator term Joint author.
700 1# - ADDED ENTRY--PERSONAL NAME
Personal name Jacobson, Neil S.,
Dates associated with a name 1949-
Relator term Joint author.
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Operator's initials, OID (RLIN) EW
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    Dewey Decimal Classification   Available   The Emmaus Library The Emmaus Library   19/06/2014 Human Condition Bookstore 22.06 4 2 306.7/CHR 15182 16/09/2015 08/05/2015 1 50.00 19/06/2014 Book